He wanted nothing to do with helping me with mom while she was alive. Except for driving me to visit her in hospital, or rehab. And a couple of times I had to go with her to doctor appointments and asked husband to drive me. Years ago, I made a suggestion about handling something with his father. He got a little angry. He said I 'll take care of my father and you take. care of your mother. He saw how much work I was doing a few days ago for mom's stuff. He said you should buy yourself something really nice. That's his support. There isn't much he can do but still I feel alone, and. getting overwhelmed again. I have complications. Not. Just normal estate work.
Think of all the reasons you are still married to him. Do they still make sense? (Notice that Jessie mentions her EX husband.)
If you were single, you'd have to do all this alone. So somehow you'd figure out how to get it done. Do that. And then give you marriage a long hard look. Are you better off with him or without him?
thats a turn on too .
get in your husbands @s$ .
none of us are exempt from a good attitude adjustment ..
Is your hubby pretty much of the attitude of "your parent, your problem"? Whatever happened to team work among couples :P Believe me, I have a long memory and won't forget this for the future.