Just not sure what is the best thing to do. Should I be there waiting for her (room is decorated a bit with some of her favourite items and hospital bed) or should I just leave her with staff to get situated on her own?
She has good days then bad days, been a long hospital haul. I’ve seen her about 7 visits, 1 hr each time. She has no will to live, this is it for her.
Help!
So, I would try to be there. I know there are those who say loved ones settle in better when you aren't there and you should leave them for two weeks. I strongly disagree with that but like I said I'm basing my answer on my own experience.
Good luck to you and your mom!
Very good advice. Your post shows a lot of empathy and kindness. It was a good read.
Andrew Cuomo the governor of NYS with immunity form prosecution, allowed hospitals with positive cases to be sent to nursing homes and assisted living facility with hardly any PPE and no testing facility and staff leaving , infecting my wife and over 40,000 poor seniors with the terrible virus. He had the navy medical ship comfort and the javits center and a huge center in NJ. He not use then only to send the patient to their death He made sure his mother was taken out of the assisted living home before he sent the order out to move these hospital patients to nursing families and assisted living..
I want ever family to know how unprepared these faculties,were and the way NYS governor took my wife life away and the terrible way she passed away. I am on a mission to have Cuomo be pay for his maleficent action causing the death of our loved. by his actions. I I could would like to know what went through his mind when he did this.
Anyone family has gone what I experienced you must speak out for your loved one whom have died from getting the virus. please call or e-mail you elected officials for the sake of people that were lost because of what he did Please answer this posting
I visited the next day, bad day for her though. Staff told me today that she is making them laugh, some tears still.
By the way, I’m in Canada (Nova Scotia) and many covid restrictions are easing up. Masks and PPE were used to decorate her room. Now I await visitation appointments.
Andrew Cuomo the governor of NYS with immunity form prosecution, allowed hospitals with positive cases to be sent to nursing homes and assisted living facility with hardly any PPE and no testing facility and staff leaving , infecting my wife and over 40,000 poor seniors with the terrible virus. He had the navy medical ship comfort and the javits center and a huge center in NJ. He not use then only to send the patient to their death He made sure his mother was taken out of the assisted living home before he sent the order out to move these hospital patients to nursing families and assisted living..
I want ever family to know how unprepared these faculties,were and the way NYS governor took my wife life away and the terrible way she passed away. I am on a mission to have Cuomo be pay for his maleficent action causing the death of our loved. by his actions. I I could would like to know what went through his mind when he did this.
Anyone family has gone what I experienced you must speak out for your loved one whom have died from getting the virus. please call or e-mail you elected officials for the sake of people that were lost because of what he did Please answer this posting