She is a diabetic, can barely see due to macular degeneration. Most recent problem is she can no longer walk. Her knees are very bad due to arithitus and worn out joints. One of the most difficult problems she has to manage is Lymphodema. Major problems with legs swelling. Looking for the best way to manage this in Assisted Care. For years we have had difficulty finding someone who is knowledgeable about Lymphodema. If swelling becomes extreme. It can lead to blistering , cellulitus and hospitalation. With diabetes we have to avoid any open sores on her legs also. Assisted care seems to add more challenges with this condition.
I think your mom needs more attention and she would get that in Skilled Nursing.
As I scanned down and I saw Cover999 response and I thought ..that's odd..then I read your profile.
You would benefit from talking to someone. When you say you fit the profile of depression except for the suicide you do not have to check all the boxes to be diagnosed with depression. But the good thing is you are aware of it. The questions is do you want to do something about it. You are very young to just give up and accept that you are going to be depressed.
You need to start taking care of yourself.
You mention no money for care but Moms now in an AL? Is Medicaid paying?
Good luck
I wish you well.