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Exactly what I've already done, but why so long a notice? I've kept a foot in the door at mom's because I knew they'd stall gettting the help in full time. I told them months ago I wasn't going to do it anymore and gave them plenty of time to make the arrangements, and verbally told them again last week I was done, that my work schedule prevented me from being here and that I was not responsible if something happened. Isn't sis already solely responsible now? What legal repercussions would I face? I feel like I've already done all I need to do, but want to make sure. Mom won't like it no matter how it's presented, but at this point, that no longer matters. She'll forget soon enough. I can't make it another week, let alone another month. If I don't just say "tomorrow is it -- you are on your own with mom's care", it won't ever happen and I'll get stuck running myself to the grave.
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Start looking and packing this weekend. I would mail letters return receipt requested, along with an email notification for back-up; that is plenty of paper trail. Mail those letters on Saturday, if possible. All I can say is, good for you! Wish you all the very best.
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You find an apartment and you move. You are not the POA, the POA is the one responsible for her care. You advise sis, the agency, your mother and the attorney that you are out of there by March 1 (30 day notice). And you go. It is not abandonment with sufficient notice. It's a matter of saving your own life. They will muddle through.. You just stop in for tea once a week.
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