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I am 78, never had major surgery before,but I'm due a total hip replacement and can't stop worrying about a couple of pretty minor seeming things.
First : I need to get up in the night to pee but also because I'm a bad sleeper so often get up and walk around which helps me go back to sleep. This is my "normal" and I'm trying to imagine how I can physically pee or walk around safely in the night immediately following hip surgery. Sleeping pills turn me into a zombie, so I'm not keen on using sleep medication.
Second , my surgeon only does posterior approach to hip replacement, as he says it gets the best results. He has a good reputation and I can't find a doctor to say whether anterior would be better. But I am hyper mobile and also often change position when sleeping, curling up or sprawling out. I don't want to dislocate my hip, so I wonder should I be looking harder for a surgeon who does anterior.
These may seem rather small questions but thanks for any suggestions and personal advice.

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I would probably recommend a second opinion of a doctor that does both and list out the pros/cons of each. Then based on that you'll have more a better idea of which way you want to go and with whom.
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Hubs got posterior done R hip in Nov, via the Mako robotic system for hip replacement surgery. His wasn’t a hip break but a very bad degradation of the socket due to aging PLUS he also has RA so that affects joints as well. As part of the Mako, you get a CT done a couple of weeks in advance that produces a blueprint to create replacement part. The orthopedic surgeon can adjust the part, which he did to go into the bone a pointy bit deeper to strengthen the overall socket. It was posterior done with self dissolving sutures. Posterior done as it allows surgeon to have a better view of the hip socket. The self dissolving is nice as you or whomever you have to help you out at home won’t have to deal with removal and replacement of a regular “ski” bandage….. instead he got a waterproof antimicrobial dressing over the incision. It stayed on for a bit more than a week and removed at the first in person post surgery appointment with orthopedic. They removed it and put a super lightweight “ski” bandage which stayed on @ couple of days more.

You may want to ask why your doc wants to do posterior as there could be a definite reason why and also what type of sutures / bandage he will be placing.

Surgery was a Thurs AM; from recovery was admitted for overnight hospital stay; that afternoon got a visit from OT and then PT and they made him get up go to the bathroom, use pinchers to pick up a towel on the floor, get in & out of bed and a chair, using a walker. PT had him walk down the hallway and then go the PT room to do short set of stairs and turn around on its platform then down. He had regular but light meal that evening too. Next AM same thing with OT & PT, discharged midday, late afternoon had a Zoom call with ortho. In home health came by Sat AM to go over exercises and do a visual assessment of his walking, sitting, using stairs. In-home was abt 3 weeks, twice a week. Then he went to out patient PT center for regular PT plus a weekly aqua therapy for 3 months. fwiw imo the inhome PT were fairly lackluster at best but the outpatient PT center was fab.

There was absolutely no way he all on his own could have been at home as not being able to bend over limits so much. He could not be able to put stuff into the dishwasher, drive, change linens, tying shoe laces, putting on socks. No driving!. There was to be no ABSOLUTELY NO bending over at all and no crossing of your legs as well. He ordered a couple of pairs of those slip in Sketcher’s shoes, which worked perfectly. Our son came in for a couple of weeks as I still freelance. It was great as he could take his Dad out for lunch and a drive while I reset the house.

Our situation was more intense due to hubs RA. But realistically I think it would be oh so hard to be 100% at home solo for the first week to 10 days after surgery.
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My husband had right THP at age 60 in November 2025, then left in May 2026. Both times anterior. Both times, he was walking a little bit same day and able to take stairs very slowly next morning (first time) or same day (second time). Both times, he found it hard to find a comfortable sleeping position for about the first week. He took the painkillers at night only for about 4-5 nights and otherwise just OTC pain meds. I worried a lot about him falling in the middle of the night on the way to the bathroom so I got him a urinal bottle like they have at the hospital. Which he refused to use but he was fine and never fell. They gave him a walker which he also refused to use! He managed with a cane only. We got — but he never used — one of those things that fit over the toilet seat with arm and hand supports.

He had physical therapy for 6-8 weeks each time. I had to help him put on shoes and socks only. In terms of driving, he was cleared to do so after two weeks for right hip and after one week for left hip. You do have to be off the opioids to get clearance to drive.

He now sleeps way better than he has in years, and he can walk 4 miles no problem. Hopes to get back to playing tennis within a couple of months.
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You are lucky Peggy that you did not become addicted. There are people who do quickly. Everyone experiences pain differently. A friend of mine did well without taking oxy.
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PeggySue2020 5 hours ago
Over 95 percent of pts do not become addicted, Joann.
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I went through a left hip replacement at age 60. My top piece of advice is to clarify that you will be getting opiate painkillers to help you recover and RUN from any “opiate sparing” surgeon with ‘wholistic pain management.” I couldn’t even start my pt without oxy, which they told me to get a refill on. By weeks 2-3 I no longer needed oxy. No, I didn’t get addicted.

My husband was off two weeks to take care of me. If I didn’t have him, I’d have to get an aide or sign up for rehab. You will definitely need support from a physically healthy person. Oh and if staying at home, install a raised shower seat.
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Do you live alone. If you do, I would highly recommend a short inpatient rehab stay to get used to precautions and practicing getting around with someone to assist if necessary. This would help you gain confidence and independence regarding getting out of bed and safely getting around. Medicare will pay for this short term rehab and it can be set up by hospital social workers. You can even visit some facilities pre-op to choose a place. If you are alone, home care visits aren't enough in the early stages of recovery.
You should do very well. Most of my total joint patients would tell me that they were sorry they waited so long to get it done.
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I had anterior hip replacement in 2017. Either way, you can barely move your lower body in bed for a couple of weeks after surgery, so "changing position or sprawling out" while sleeping will not be possible. You'll lie down and stay in that position for the night.

You'll also need help at home for the first week. Help getting to the bathroom, for one. You won't be walking around during the night.....you're recovering from surgery, but you'll still need help that first week. Keep a walker and a cane at home, you'll need both. I had no PT....walking was my only therapy, per the doctor. First with the walker, then the cane.

I'd also find another doctor to do an anterior hip replacement. There is NO REASON to do a posterior at all. You'll have a much longer and more painful recovery if you go that route.

Good luck to you.
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I had a posterior hip replacement in 2018 as my doctor too thought it was better for me than the anterior one, and I not only had to get up overnight when I had to pee but also had to get up with my husband who was a fall risk, and was able to do both just moving a bit slower. My daughter stayed at our home for a week after my surgery and I would for the first few days call her on her phone in the other room, and she would come help me get to the bathroom and back, meaning that she just made sure that I made it there and back safely, so I hope you'll have someone with at least for the first week. After that you should be fine.
The main thing with the posterior surgery is that you just can't bend over more then 45 degrees which is the most challenging thing.
I'm a side sleeper, and obviously couldn't sleep on my left side with new hip for a while, but could still sleep on my right side and of course my back.
And I certainly wouldn't be taking any sleeping medications as I think you're just asking for trouble there.
The nurses will get you up walking the day of your surgery, and PT will work with you the following day to be able to walk up a few steps and get in and out of their cut in half car, and then they'll send you home.
I had my surgery on a Tuesday morning and I was home by noon Wednesday, the following day. And yes, you'll be using a walker for a while until you graduate to a cane, but then you'll be good as new and won't need either.
And I'm not big on pain medications either, so I only took them the first couple of days and then only ibuprofen if I needed it.
You're going to be just fine and will be so glad when it's all said and done.
And trust your doctor about the posterior decision as they know best, and obviously have their reasons for choosing the posterior verses the anterior just like my doctor did, and my doctor did explain the reason for him choosing the posterior verses the anterior so you may want yours to explain that to you as well so you feel better about it.
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lealonnie1 Jul 25, 2026
You cannot bend over with the anterior THR either.
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My cousin recently had anterior hip replacement. Went home same day as surgery and recovered easily with no issues. In your shoes, I’d find a different doctor
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I had both hips replaced in my late 50s. Anterior approach. Find another surgeon who does anterior replacement. Talk to another surgeon and find more info before agreeing to the other (posterior) surgery. The anterior surgery does not cut any muscles. It stretches them, which, while still causing pain, is recovered from *much* faster than healing cut muscles.

You may be told that results come out about the same for both types of procedures 6 months in - which is true - but in the days to weeks following the hip replacement, you will be up and about with pretty much no pain very soon after the anterior hip replacement.

I was up walking within hours. My hip felt better than pre-surgery immediately, with less pain and easier walking and movement. Within half a day they had me doing stairs, and I went home within 24 hours. I stopped pain meds within days.

Physical therapy is slow and gentle. You need to do it, but it’s not at all the extreme, arduous exercise usually portrayed. It’s wiggle your toes. Flex your legs. Carefully walk with a walker. You do need someone about for the first few days, and shouldn’t drive for a few weeks (mostly, I found, because of the possibility of needing to brake hard in an emergency stop - you want to be sure that would be okay).
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I just looked the two procedures up. If it was me, I would go for anterior. Have you told him how much you move around. Posterior more like to dislocate the hip, anterior not so much. Posterior seems an easier way for the surgeon.

"Anterior hip replacement is a muscle-sparing procedure where the surgeon accesses the joint from the front of the hip. By working between major muscles rather than cutting through them, patients often experience less post-operative pain, a lower risk of dislocation, and faster early recovery."

"The posterior approach to hip replacement involves an incision on the side/back of the hip near the buttocks. The surgeon accesses the joint by splitting the gluteus maximus muscle fibers and detaching the short external rotators, leaving the major walking muscles intact. It provides excellent visualization for implant placement."
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