My visits make him worse. He scares me. He was suppose to come home this week but I cannot bring him home like this. I am not going to visit because it upsets him. He wants to come home. I cannot bring him home like this. He calls just to insult me. His Dementia is getting worse and I want to care for him but he is too angry with me. I would love to bring him home but his behavior is just too unpredictable.
I've been blessed with good and pretty good social workers. They all helped in finding appropriate facilities. They should be able to give you a list, and tell you what level of care he needs, according to his medical and behavioral needs.