I’m so excited to finally pick my mom up and go up to her apartment in MC! However, my feisty mom wants to leave with us when we visit her. When we drop her back off at MC from a fun visit, she gets mad. The caregivers tried to help, but it didn’t work. My mom has mild to moderate vascular dementia. Sometimes we can “trick” and other times it doesn’t work. This last time, I just had to tell her that this is where she has to go because she didn’t like living with us and she can’t live by herself any more.
Also I'm not clear if you're physically taking her out and about from the MC, but if that is the case, I would stop that completely for a while, and just visit with her in her apartment. That way you won't have to fight to get back in. Best wishes.
I look forward to bringing my mom her favorite chile rellenos again, but I can no longer take her out for them.
to work. The word "home" was never used. I would just say, see u later.
I agree, don't take her out. I am really surprised that you are allowed to.
How long is it since you've been able to visit her?