My dad has dementia which has progressed rapidly. He fell in the home 3 times last week. He is in the hospital and has been referred by social worker for nursing home care. He is swearing and not being very cooperative with hospital staff. He has since been denied entry to most of the local nursing homes. My mother is not able to care for him in the home if it comes to that. What can we do?
The Social Worker is going to do all that she can do to keep him as close to his "residence" as she can.
Keep telling them and tell mom to tell them that it is an UNSAFE DISCHARGE.
He is going to have to be medicated to stop the aggression because no place wants a resident that is angry and noncompliant. It will take time to find the right combination of meds, so be prepared.
Best of luck finding a solution that doesn't make him a zombie.
Therefore, the social worker must keep trying until she finds the placement he needs.
No worries there.
I have been through this more than once with a family member.