Mom is almost 95 years old. I notice that she is becoming confused and hallucinating sometimes. I know cataract surgery would improve her eyesight but if the local anesthesia causes her to become even more confused, I'm not willing to risk that result. Shes says she sees okay and my sister says she seems to see alright. Has anyone out there had the same dilemma? What did you do?
The only thing is that your Mom might be scared about the surgery and that will put added stress on her. Check with her primary doctor to see if he/she could give her something to calm her down, if it is also ok with the eye doctor.
I would be very surprised if the local anaesthetic had any effect on your mother's mental state; but the procedure itself is quite stressful though not painful, as described by people who have undergone it.
The bleared vision caused by cataracts could be exacerbating your mother's confusion and apparent hallucinations, on the other hand. If I were you I'd whisk her off to an ophthalmologist for professional advice on the risks and benefits.
From my experience, many doctors do not really realize just how resistant and uncooperative a patient with dementia may be, due to no fault of their own. They don't seem to comprehend that the adult would be similar to operating on an infant with regard to the their ability to follow instructions.
You might ask questions like what if she moves when told not to. What if she touches her eye after the procedure, etc. Would restraints be required? It's a lot to consider.
As for putting Your own Mom through an anesthetic at 95 years. No I would not never, not at that age. Enjoy every day You have with Your Mom, and be thankful She's so wonderful. As for being a little confused and hallucinating " that's probably from the medications....sleeping tablets can cause that, as I had to STOP giving My own Mom sleeping tablets as they made Her confused and caused hallucinations.
On the day of the procedure and as he was being prepped, we were ushered into the office of the Director of Nursing and informed that they would be unable to perform the surgery due to Dad's extensive list of medication sensitivities. We were then advised that he was not a good candidate for the surgery and to retrieve Dad ASAP and, if desired, make other arrangements.
Sadly, what we saw "behind the scenes" was an assembly line of elders being systematically sent along from point A to B to C etc. as quickly as possible leading us to believe that the main object was to get as many procedures completed as quickly as possible.
Subsequent discussions with Dad's PCP have reassured us that he is doing as well as any other 91 year old at this stage of his life without being subjected to this invasive procedure as long as we keep him Safe, Healthy and as Happy as possible.
As for Dad, although he does experience some visual blurring, he still can spot a bluebird on the sidewalk 50 feet away, can read the captioning on his favorite TV shows, and has no problem cleaning every last morsel of food off of his plate.
The bottom line here: Yes, while the cataract surgery might have improved Dad's eyesight, would this have positively impacted his quality of life and daily living or would having him undergo the procedure and whatever complications the anesthesia might have caused and any subsequent confusion caused by same have proven detrimental? In this case, probably not.
So, if you are experiencing concerns, be sure to engage your Mom's PCP in the discussion before making any decisions.
Eye surgery is different--they rarely do it under a general. But if she's combative, she's going to need to be semi-sedated. It's a choice you'll have to make. Good luck!
We had to keep a patch over the eye until the next morning when we saw the doctor and he examined it. If you don't think your mother is up to that, or would pick at the patch you might want to rethink surgery.
How bad is her cataract? I could see, just colors were like someone had been smoking in the room. I laugh because I had some white towels and white undies that I had been bleaching over and over because I just couldn't get them white. It was my eyes not the poor towels and undies. I couldn't see to drive as well at night. Things were a little bit blurred.
Also, I was given a choice of seeing close up or at a distance. I chose distance so I didn't have to wear glasses to drive. I need glasses for reading. I would recommend having close up lenses put in for your mother if you do have the surgery.
I hope this helps. What did the ophthalmologist say?
I am very nearsighted (a risk factor for retinal detachment), and I gave up my contact lenses for glasses (with the one side being plain glass) to prevent risk of infection and also for physical protection of the good eye. I had a choice of being corrected to a very "crisp" 20/20 or just a "marginal" 20/20. I chose the latter because I'm still able to see things up fairly close while wearing the glasses, which I wouldn't be able to do with the crisp correction. However, I don't wear the glasses when reading or typing, or for many indoor activities at home. I'm mentioning this in case someone wants to keep the option of a "marginal" 20/20 in mind to be able to retain more close-up vision, which I suppose is a possibility with a replacement lens after cataract surgery as well as with eyeglasses.
Gone from being relatively healthy three years ago to being very "old" now.
I think it most certainly does depend on what level the dementia is when you consider doing anything like surgery or some medical procedure that requires patient cooperation and compliance. For some, who's family members have moderate dementia, they may not be able to comprehend what it's like to be with a loved one who is severely effected. They may not comprehend how the loved one may tear off a bandage, pick at a wound, attempt to crawl over a bed rail, refuse to open the eye for drops, etc. Challenging behavior can make simple procedures very difficult. And then when the doctor doesn't get it either.......it's tough.
My mom is the same age, and we decided together to get her cataract surgery.
It went well....the first eye was her "good" eye, which left her 100% blind until we could remover her bandage the next day. That was the worst of it.
Also, many eye drops must be applied over 3-4 weeks....takes determination and patience to get thru the rounds of eye drops.
She's all done now....zero problems, thank God.
If you can discuss this procedure with your mom, and she can understand what to expect...it will go pretty well. But, she must Understand and be receptive to having it done.
Hope this helps.