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Is he also diabetic? What does he want to do? What stage is cancer? What does cardio say? Is he handicapped from stroke? Many issues that could affect his decision. Not easy to give an opinion without knowing the whole scenario. What's the prognosis without surgery? Would he need chemo or radiation?
Yes, details needed. How far has the colon cancer spread? What surgery will he have - Bowel resection & colostomy? Chemo? Radiation? How old is he? He will need pre op clearance by his PCP and cardiology prior to surgery, and maybe neurology clearance due to the CVA. Talk it over with your family and your grandfather and find out how he wants to proceed. Is he competent to make such a decision? Sorry you and your family are going through this. Best wishes for him!
Aileen you can only reach a decision with the help of your grandfather's doctors. The first question I'd ask them is "what happens if he doesn't have the surgery, and how will you care for him?"
It's a question of what you're hoping to achieve, and what it's worth putting him through to get there.
Having successfully endured a major surgery with anesthetic last year for the leg amputation,if nothing has changed that part of it should be OK. No guarantees for an elder sick person with other issues but the odd seem to be in his favor. Next question is whether or not he wants to do it. Is it just a small cancer that does not seem to have spread? if it is the latter then the prognosis has to be weighed against the side effects of months of RT and Chemo which are unlikely to be pleasant. With a prognosis of a few months he may just wish to enjoy whatever time he has left with family and friends. Be guided by grandpa'a wishes.
I'm very sorry to hear about your grandfather's diagnosis. This is a very difficult question to answer. What does your grandfather think? If he is mentally sound, he should be making this decision based on all the information the doctors can give him. Everyone is so different. I have heard of elders in their 90s pursuing chemo and radiation while others refuse. I hope you'll help your grandfather make the best decision based on his needs and wants.
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Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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What stage is cancer? What does cardio say? Is he handicapped from stroke? Many issues that could affect his decision. Not easy to give an opinion without knowing the whole scenario. What's the prognosis without surgery? Would he need chemo or radiation?
He will need pre op clearance by his PCP and cardiology prior to surgery, and maybe neurology clearance due to the CVA.
Talk it over with your family and your grandfather and find out how he wants to proceed. Is he competent to make such a decision?
Sorry you and your family are going through this. Best wishes for him!
It's a question of what you're hoping to achieve, and what it's worth putting him through to get there.
Next question is whether or not he wants to do it.
Is it just a small cancer that does not seem to have spread?
if it is the latter then the prognosis has to be weighed against the side effects of months of RT and Chemo which are unlikely to be pleasant.
With a prognosis of a few months he may just wish to enjoy whatever time he has left with family and friends.
Be guided by grandpa'a wishes.
I'm very sorry to hear about your grandfather's diagnosis. This is a very difficult question to answer. What does your grandfather think? If he is mentally sound, he should be making this decision based on all the information the doctors can give him. Everyone is so different. I have heard of elders in their 90s pursuing chemo and radiation while others refuse. I hope you'll help your grandfather make the best decision based on his needs and wants.