He recently became 100% blind and after 60 years of marriage was forced to put his wife into a nursing home. He is extremely depressed, very needy, and has little to no interest in learning new coping skills or practicing independence. He’s always been a doer, not willing to sit still for even a moment. While a very smart man, he takes no pleasure in reading or intellectual pursuits. This is all happening in the time of Covid 19 which has made finding solutions really difficult. Help!
You may also call Office of Aging for resources and your county Disabilities Dept. If he bulks, then tell him its not fair to you to have to do everything for him. He is not too old and it will make his life so much better.