She said no emails and no text messages.also no cards.She blocked her emails and text messages She said I can talk to her in the synagogue but not outside the synagogue.I am upset that I cannot keep in touch with with email messages or text messages or a Passover card. But I will still send her a Passover card and see what happens please answer me
I worked with a woman whose therapist stopped seeing her after a number of years. The woman was as distraught as you sound. The woman proceeded in a manner that was on the verge of stalking...even finding out the therapist's address simply to drive by her house.
You had a professional relationship that ended. It wasn't a personal relationship and its end isn't personal. If the therapy did ANYTHING for you, especially after ten years, you should be able to regroup, take a breath, and move along...maybe to another, maybe better, therapist. I'm sure it's hard...but you need to respect ALL the boundaries she set.
You might even find a strength you didn't know you had by respecting it. Wouldn't that be AWESOME?
Don't send her a card.
Don't call her.
Don't show up at her door
Realize the relationship you had with this social worker/therapist is how OVER finished kaput and no more.
Move on.
Find another therapist.
Forget about this one.
Put her out of your mind.
What will 'happen' if you send her a Passover card is NOTHING because she's already told you NOT to send cards, call, or show up on her property. Because she's retired now and the relationship is over.
Finished. Kaput.
You've gotten SEVEN answers so far to your question. Is that enough?
See if you can find a psychiatrist to help you now, it's time to move on to the next level of medical help.
My belief is if you're still needing to see the same therapist for 10 years, they perhaps are not doing their job, and it's time to find another anyway. So on that note, I wish you the best in finding a new therapist that will better help you and that it won't take another 10 years for you to get the help you need.
Hi Shirley1946,
I am sorry that your therapist has retired and understand that finding a new one can be stressful and difficult. If you are having a mental health emergency, please immediately call SAMHSA’s 24/7 National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357) or the 24/7 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255.
I'm also writing to ask that you please stop posting the same question repeatedly on the Caregiver Forum. Other members have already responded to your initial post, which you can find by copy/pasting this link into your browser:
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/i-have-been-seeing-a-therapist-for-10-years-and-she-has-retired-what-do-i-do-now-473566.htm
Additionally, please refrain from posting the name and location of your therapist(s). This infringes on their privacy and violates our forum policy. I strongly discourage you from going to your therapist's house as well.
I have compiled a list of online resources that may help you find the mental health services and supports you are seeking:
American Psychological Association Psychologist Locator
https://locator.apa.org/
Psychology Today
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us
GoodTherapy
https://www.goodtherapy.org/
Montgomery County, MD, Behavioral Health, Counseling and Wellness Supports
https://www.montgomerycountymd.gov/HHS-Program/Resources/Files/A&D%20Docs/DND/DNDMentalHealth.pdf
I have private messaged and emailed you the contents of this post as well. I hope this helps. Please take care of yourself, Shirley1946.
Lastly, I agree with JoAnn29's recommendation and will be closing this thread to new comments.
-AgingCareCM