My mother was hospitalized 3 1/2 wks ago to have her hip bursa drained. First she tested postive for strep & was put on IV antibiotics. Several days later, she was experiencing GI problems, but was discharged to rehab. The GI problems intensified, and her sample was positive for C Diff. She has now been on Vancomycin for 8 days without much improvement (her other IV antiobiotic has also continued), She wants to return to her condo, where she's been cared for by a part time aide for the past 8 yrs. She has many, many health problems. Additionaly over the last year, her mobility has become almost non-existent and her vision has declined sharply. As an RN, she's excellent at managing her many meds, but spends most of her time sleeping.
She is insisting that she will not remain in the NH, which I can sympathize with, but I am wondering how she can possibly return home with C Diff, which is really difficult to disinfect. The NH RN said that this may go on for many months. My mother has agreed to allow more aides (though she does that every time she's in the hospital/rehab then fires most of them when she gets home). I'm wondering if any aides will be willing to take this assignment? I don't think her current aide will be willing to return as she is in the higher risk group for C Diff infection.
I work full-time, and am not able/willing to provide additional care beyond the shopping/visiting/quarterbacking that I have been doing for the past decade.
He got strep, then antibiotics and vicious diarrhea. He was treated for C Diff tho I was told that it was "not testing positive for c diff despite their eyes and nose telling them different". The docs wanted him in care on IV antibiotics and they wanted him in for at least a month. SNF was the answer. He decided that he could not stand it anymore and wanted to go home even if he died (had a diagnosis of probable early Lewy's dementia, and to tell you the truth I am quite certain he WANTED to die).
His ALF would not accept him home without Hospice. He got hospice. He was put on by mouth antibiotic. He was dead in less than two weeks time.
If your Mom knows the risks and this is what she wants and you consider her rational then I don't see what choice you have in this matter. It IS an option. See to it she has enough care and understands the risks.
For my brother, despite its outcome, this was the right decision. I don't think he would have survived the SNF any better than he survived leaving it, IV antibiotics or no.
I would allow your mother to make this decision were it me, full well understanding the outcome.
The thing is, my mother doesn't want to go home to die. She wants her old life back, and just won't accept reality, though she's been dying steadily for years. This year's reality has involved 2 ambulance rides to the ER, followed by hospitalizations. She is cared for by a team of 6 specialists for her various conditions, including adult onset autoimmune hemophilia--and she's also on a blood thinner. For years, I took her to her constant medical appointments; for the last 8 years it's been an aide. I'm really sort of amazed that she won't give up. She's outlived her siblings, husband, friends, and probably soon, her son (my brother). A retired RN, she has unrealistic expectations for the CNA(s) that care for her, and is consistently belligerent with the care staff, wherever she is.
So, what's my question? I'm trying to figure out how we'll deal with the infectious aspect of C. Diff. when she returns home. I really don't want to get this, too. And I'm very tired--I can't quit my job, because my family & I need the health insurance coverage.
Here's the thing. This decision is out of your and mom's hands. The discharge planner has the authority to decide if discharge home is a "safe discharge".
I would leave the decision in her/his/their hands and not facilitate any transport.
In my experience the discharge planners just want to get people out when Medicare no longer wants to pay. You already said mom will fire the additional caregivers, and the original caregiver may not stay either. I don’t have a good answer for you. I am just warning you not to trust the decision to a discharge planner.
I don't blame her for not wanting to stay in the NH.
One is brewers yeast the other is a probiotic I cant spell but it's in this article.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/9753273/
Then may go home afterwards.Have you considered a live in aide for her?
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