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She should see a rheumatologist if her pain is not controlled. There are over 100 types of arthritis, and people can have more than one kind. There may be far better relief available than she is getting. The only way to know is to see a specialist. Take care,
Pain management is so varied, as Carol said. My Mom just went through a period of arthritic pain in her shoulder, knee, and hands. The over-the-counter meds barely took the edge off. The docs finally prescribed Viocidin which gave her hallucinations and altered her personality temporarily, but did take away the pain. During this period her GP recommended physical therapy. She spent a week in rehab. They gave her exercises and helped work out the pain in her shoulder. At home she continues these exercises and the severe pain has not returned. Now, she just takes ibuprofen and excedrin back and body. She says the exercises keep her "loose." Is your Mother able to go to PT rehab or move a bit?
I would also appreciate answers, my mom has an HMO and the general dr. has taken tests for rhumatoid arthritis and says that she does not have that type . They don't want to refer her to rheumatologist if it is osteo arthritis. She has severe stenosis in the spine that gives her a great deal of pain, she is 91.We have tried lots of things, they want to keep her going to get epidurals but the pain dr. says that too much of that type of medicine can make the osteoporosis worse, so we are looking for alternatives. We have tried accupuncture and that did not help.
This is a time for you as a caregiver to kick shins and scream at the top of your lungs!!! No one, NO ONE, should have to live in pain. Remind the doctors that she is not going to become "adicted." She merely needs to be comfortable. She is not going to "recover" and return to gainful employment. She merely needs to "not hurt." Get a second opinion; demand to see a specialist; involve the doctor's omnibudsman; demand to see the omnibudsman for the local Office on Aging; threaten to write the local paper; threaten to call the TV media and go on line with your concerns. Don't give up until your mother is controled enough she can be interested in other things. She man never "get well" but that's no excuse for her to be left uncomforted.
Hi ambsmith, thank you for stating what I needed to hear.. I am elderly and I live in awful pain. I also have had medications injected into my spine, no cure there, just a bandaid for a short span of time. I have had barbaric disc surgery that involved taking a length of my hip bone to fuse my back. I devloped other spinal problems as time marched on. Arthritis, stenosis, and degenerative disc disease along with excess scar tissue from the surgery. I hav run the gambut of so many different treatments. My MD will not give me pain meds without my having to submit to very expensive tests. I live on, or should i say...I exist on SS. and cannot afford these specialists and their fancy machines. I have been told that I will have no choice other than going that route because my pcp. cannot prescribe pain meds without it being approved by a orthopedist. I am so sick and tired of being prodded and poked and all I want is to get some relief from this suffering. I cannot stand on my feet for longer than 15 minutes at a time. I volunteer at a thrift shop here in town that supports a animal rescue 3 days a week. Lately I have been unable to stay for the hours I am commited to because my whole spine feels like it is being compressed and the pain is too much. I am grateful for this forum of you caring people because I need to vent my problem and be understood. I have a appointment tommorow with my DR. and I plan to give him a earful and if he is unsympathetic, I will walk away and contact my local office on aging.
Feline: My mother too had bone fusion in 1961. Messed her up later in life. Scar tissue growing into spinal cord. Had to have it drilled. Now she is 93 and in terrible pain. I think you must be much younger. Why can't your doctor prescribe pain meds? I sure hope you did get some pain relief from your doctor. It isnt right to make someone suffer when there is a remedy. My mom its either, she sleep like she is dead or in constant pain.????
Well here's my update on my Dr.s visit. I told him what I wanted and what I didn't want and he listened. He prescribed Vicodin for pain to be taken every 6-8 hours. While I was there he examined me on the table and found my liver to be distended and swollen. So this coming Tuesday the 22, I will have a ultrasound for my liver and a MRI for my spine. I swear that if we live long enough we will experience everything. Today is Sunday and I attempted to do a bit of housework, the cobwebs and cat hair could not be denied any longer. So I vac. and swept away the dust bunnies. After a short span of time the pain was unbearable. I took a Vicodin and it did NOT work for me. I don't know what to do. I certainly don't want to live like your poor mom. I am in my mid 70s and have a way to go (I think) I'm hoping there might be a med that won't put me in La La land. Thanks for caring, it's so comforting to know that there are people out here that I can vent to. Shalom, Roz
Sometimes generic pain medications do not work! There is also Vicodin ES. The next stronger medication is Norco. If your doctor will not give you pain meds find another MD ~ Its worth getting brand name pain meds if you have the resources to afford them. Worked as nurse for 20 yrs .
"severe stenosis in the spine that gives her a great deal of pain, she is 91." This is a lot of times diagnosed as Spondyloisis. You might want to look it up. Current thought is that antispasmodics MAY be of more benefit than meds beyond Naprosin. Its worth considering with the physician.
My mom takes tramadol for arthritis. She has a lidocaine pain patch for lower spine compression fractures. There are other stronger pain meds available through patches.
My mom has arthritis all over, used to take Naproxen, recently her doc said he is no longer ccomfortable due to side effect risks. So she takes Tylenol, and has several microwaveable rice-filled packs that she can place on shoulder, neck, knee, etc. I've also read that tart cherry juice or extract can help (need to research this some more).
Exercise, the less a person moves the more painful it becomes to move. Water therapy works well as well. As hard as it is to see a loved one in pain, pain killers are not the way to go they are addictive and your body builds a tolerance to them and then you need higher and higher doses. Before doing tasks have your mom stretch and move her limbs to loosen them before doing any serious moving.
Ice and heat - alternating - can help a lot. Tramadol is a good drug - easier on the stomach than NSAIDS, though it's not an anti-inflammatory. Some herbs are good at bringing down inflammation, ginger being one of them. There's only so much medication a person can take so pain management generally means all kinds of approaches including heat and ice, topical pain relievers and appropriate exercise.
Joint replacement for hips and knees can be miraculous if done by an experienced surgeon.
Don't get chilled, either. That stirs up the pain as can stress and weather changes. It's a constant management issue.
My family has three types of arthritis so I've worked with this a lot. Good luck helping your loved one. It's tough. Carol
Some doctor now won't prescribe any narcotic pain meds no matter what. It's mainly because the gov is putting a lot of pressure on them. My PCP will give me sleeping pills and tranquilizers, but not even the mildest narcotic pain med. So I use Glucosamine chondroitin, Tylenol and Curamin (OTC Turmeric mixture). My gastro doctor wanted me to minimize use of NSAIDs, have had severe stomach problems...but I use NSAIDs when I really need help. Arthritiis,bad back, joint pain, etc.
In Colorado, marihuana is legal. The local dispensary has a topical cream made with cannibus ... It works. No nasty side effects. If you live in a state that allows medical marihuana... Get a proscription for this stuff.
I'd try it if I could, but don't think my state will make that legal anytime soon. I also use tart cherries...fresh, dried or supplements. I recently found a magazine called Pain-Free Living....had to laugh about the title, since I don't even hope for that, just hope for much less pain. Anyway, they're doing research now on a cytokine called interleukin-6 (IL-6) as far as lower back pain, which suggests low-grade systemic inflammation in this condition and might lead to faster diagnosis and treatment in the future. Not sure all doctors want to diagnose it, however. My PCP usually just says there's nothing more he can do about my chronic back pain and arthritiis. Kind of a you're-getting-older-what-do-you-expect kind of approach.
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APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
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We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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During this period her GP recommended physical therapy. She spent a week in rehab. They gave her exercises and helped work out the pain in her shoulder. At home she continues these exercises and the severe pain has not returned. Now, she just takes ibuprofen and excedrin back and body. She says the exercises keep her "loose." Is your Mother able to go to PT rehab or move a bit?
Now she is 93 and in terrible pain. I think you must be much younger.
Why can't your doctor prescribe pain meds?
I sure hope you did get some pain relief from your doctor. It isnt right
to make someone suffer when there is a remedy.
My mom its either, she sleep like she is dead or in constant pain.????
Joint replacement for hips and knees can be miraculous if done by an experienced surgeon.
Don't get chilled, either. That stirs up the pain as can stress and weather changes. It's a constant management issue.
My family has three types of arthritis so I've worked with this a lot. Good luck helping your loved one. It's tough.
Carol