She drinks heavily every night falls down runs into furniture and talks to her friends telling them I'm mean and she thinks I'm going to hurt her and I'd kill her if could get away with it. I would never hurt my mother. She wants me to move out and this is the way she's going about it. I'm here because my step dad died suddenly and she has serious health issues I am an only child I just had cervical spine surgery last week I can't go anywhere and she can't live here by herself she has no paper work , will, directive nothing she said she wants me out of her life. I'm feeling very hurt. But I don't want to go to jail for something she has made up in her mind either. I need help or advise both. We both don't have a lot of money as I've been off work due to health problems . Any suggestions?
He walked away. Let the chips fall where they did.
and I am out of here a soon as I can drive and work I just had cervical spine surgery last Friday
thank you
Talk to your (former?) employer and see if you can get your job back or if there is a modified duty position available for you. Failing that, find a new job or go to a temp agency and get per diem work. Get back to work and get back on your feet again (pun not intended). Look for a room to rent.
Leave as soon as you can. The longer you wait to leave the harder it will be and the deeper the hole you will have dug for yourself.
You our need to be gone before you end up in real trouble...and it is coming!