Mom has Lewy Body dementia and had a minor stroke. She is unable to speak and her alertness levels vary from day to day. Sodium was high so she was on IV for a week. She's on Zofran for nausea because she has been vomiting while eating. Now she's not eating or drinking very much. She tested positive for COVID but has no symptoms. I wish we could visit the nursing home so we could see how she is doing. I worry she may be failing but no one is really saying.
having a parent in a nursing home at this time. My Mother went
for months eating very little. They should not be forced to eat,
encouraged, but not forced. From my understanding their bodies
start to shut down and do not digest food like it used to. I went
through a lot when my Mom was in the nursing home. I would
suggest you call and talk to the Hall Nurse, if you do not get a
decent answer from her, then call and ask for the Nursing Director
for answers. But I agree with one of the others that answered,
for your peace of mind I would definately contact a Hospice
Company and have them evaluate your mother. First do a little
research to find a Company that has good reviews. It sounds
like she will qualify for Hospice care and they can be your eyes
and ears while you can not go in to see your Mom. Good luck.
Of course this could be her leaving this world. I would consult hospice and have them do an assessment to see if she qualifies and if they can provide some additional help, perhaps even allowing you to visit.
If you get hospice involved now with your mom's care, they can guide you with the feeding situation that exists right now. She may be having swallowing difficulties associated with the stroke, which is common.
Contact the nursing home directly as well and let them know that you'd like updates about your mom's condition on a regular basis. Keep in mind that the virus can take 2 weeks before it starts showing symptoms. And, it may not show ANY symptoms in your mom at ALL.
Wishing you the best of luck with the entire situation. Sending you a hug and a prayer for the best possible outcome
Glad she doesn't have symptoms. My mom is in skilled nursing too, its difficult not knowing and trying not to worry. I'm sorry I have no solutions, just wanted to stand with you.