Son was living here but moved out, I and feeding, but disposable diaper, taking care of their cats, her son is surpose to help, but has only since moving out brought her snacks, and Suzi. What can I do, if he is not working and lives over 1hour from here, and daughter lives in Kentucky
Really need more info on what your relationship to these people is. You'd get better answers. If you don't want to care for these two, call APS (Adult Protection Serves). APS should find resources for these people.
You need to elaborate on the situation to get any kind of real help. A 49 year old should be taking care of themselves, so what is actually going on?